How To Effectively Manage Stressful Money Matters

Ask the adults about stress, and they’d probably blab nonstop. You know you’re a grownup when you feel stressed, and it is because by the time we reach adulthood, we are expected to be ready. There is no more room for mistakes, and judgment and criticism will always be an issue in everything we do.

 

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The Most Stressed Person In The World [Mommies, Relax!]

 

 

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Mothers are the most stressed persons in the world. For them, “Prioritizing daily self-care and making efforts to take action. Accepting that daily self-care is hard work and challenging.” Edna M. Esnil, PsyD said. No one could deny that. Some may say, “That’s not true! I’m raising my kids alone, and I’m a dad!” Yes, technically you’re not the mom, but you are assuming the duties of a mother. The word mother or mom means the person taking care of the whole household, making sure that the kids are healthy, do their homework, brush their teeth and take a shower. This person is also responsible for organizing the whole house making sure it’s tidy: all the dishes are crystal clean; the laundry basket is empty; the fridge is full of food; all the family’s stuff for work or school is ready.

 

There is just so much a mother should and can do, but if you’re not a mom and you still do all these, then congratulations! You made it to motherhood! Sometimes, it’s exhausting. It makes a mom preoccupied with all her daily tasks. She dedicates her time to the welfare of her husband and children. There are times she would sacrifice her happiness and health just to make sure her family is doing great.

 

Moms need to pause from being the superwoman. Sometimes, she also needs to breathe and relax!

 

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10 Simple Ways For Moms To Manage Stress And Relax:

 

  1. According to Melanie McNally, PsyD, LCPC Pick at least two hours a day every week to spend time with no one but yourself. It could be during the weekends, so there’s no work or school staff to prepare.

 

  1. Buy a new dress or clothes at least once a month if you’re tight on the budget. Looking presentable can lessen the stress because you will feel good about yourself.

 

  1. Buy a new pair of shoes at least every month. Oprah said, “A pair of good shoes take you to good places.” You may not want to go anywhere, but it can get you to look and feel better.

 

  1. Have a facial biweekly. Pamper yourself at least twice a month. Moms are too busy they can’t notice their age catching up unless the fine lines are noticeable. It can be tremendously stressful to look stressed, so take care of your skin!

 

  1. Have a whole-body massage Take care of yourself because you are most likely the only one who will. Soothe your skin and release the tensions from your muscles by going to the spa.

 

  1. Meet with close friends biweekly. It may seem unimportant to meet up with friends because of overwhelming mommy duties, but later on, you will realize that you need a good talk over a cup of tea with your favorite people.

 

  1. Read a good book. Relax your mind and take it somewhere else. Expand your knowledge and learn new things. Learning is limitless, and so as what you can do.

 

  1. Take a long bath. Buy your favorite essence and pour it into the water and indulge for an hour or two. Feel your body relax and be nourished.

 

  1. You can pause from your daily tasks at least once in a while to watch a feel-good movie all by yourself.

 

  1. Set a cheat day and eat your favorite food. It can be chocolates or ice cream, anything that would make you feel happy.

“Self-care is what we do for ourselves in order to better manage our stress and maintain a sense of balance. It is an on-going process and something we should be implementing daily rather than waiting for stress to completely overwhelm or overtake us.” –Melanie McNally, PsyD, LCPC

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Ryan M. Niemiec Psy.D. reminds everyone that “Any relaxation strategy involves use of your self-regulation strength. This strength involves taking control of your breathing and creating a greater feeling of calmness in your body’s physiology.” Yes, it is the responsibility of a mother to give her 101% best in taking care of the whole family, but she also must take good care of herself because even though everybody loves her so dearly, chances are no one will. Always remember -“Happy mom, happy fam!”

Dealing With Financial Stress

 

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Money does matter in this world. We need to work hard and revolve our thoughts and actions around it every day. We need money to survive, and sadly sometimes, it can be the cause of all our problems. It causes stress which affects our overall health in a significant way. It is one of the primary ingredients in developing severe medical health issues such as cancer, heart diseases, and mental health issues.

 

What Is Financial Stress?

Financial stress is a situation where your daily life consists mainly of thinking of how and where to get money to make ends meet. This situation can affect most of us because not all of us have the financial freedom that’s why we all have to put all our effort and time into making money.

 

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What Are The Signs That You Are Financially Stressed?

 

  • Brad Klontz, PsyD once said, “As long as we feel like we’re doing average and have basic needs met, such as food and shelter, there is no correlation between money and happiness.” But that is not true when you have a long-overdue credit card balance. There’s a feeling that you are a prisoner whenever you look at that blue card of yours, and the letters from the bank are already piling up on your living room table. You’re thinking if you’re going to pay it all, how are you going to eat?

 

  • Your bills are always overdue. The payment for the house is two months delayed and sometimes, you feel uncomfortable going home especially when the landlord lives right next to you. You’re hoping they’d understand, but it’s where they get their needs too.

 

  • You owe your closest friends. Of course, your friends will understand your situation, but your debts have been longstanding and you still can’t give them anything. They wouldn’t force you to pay up because they know you can’t, and somehow, this affects your self-esteem. You want to make it up to your friends, but you just can’t yet.

 

  • You stay awake at night thinking about how to make money. Even though you’re supposed to rest, you lie awake thinking where to get the money for your son’s school projects or your brother’s hospital bills. You’re always hoping that tomorrow will be brighter, and somehow, there’ll be a miracle to save you.

 

  • You spend some time dreaming you were rich. You always daydream of living in your dream house, and it makes you feel bad that you’re not. You feel like it’s never going to happen, and you just lift yourself up from the sadness and frustration.

 

  • You do things you wouldn’t usually do just to get money. You’re thinking of getting a second job or anything that will earn you You’re thinking of selling this and that or have probably already had. Eric Dammann, PhD once said, “We all have money issues and quirks of one kind or another. If we don’t know what those quirks are, they will emerge in a time of real stress or panic.”

 

  • You can’t buy the stuff you want. You always wanted to buy clothes or a new pair of shoes for yourself, but you keep wearing the same old pair that you have because you can’t afford to buy a new one. It affects your self-esteem and self-worth because all the fancy looking ladies on TV and magazines make you feel like trash.

 

  • You struggle to buy the stuff you need. It’s once in a blue moon that you can afford to buy a decent meal, and you often overlook your health. You don’t get the proper nutrients because instant or processed foods are the only ones you can afford.

 

  • You look exhausted. Stress will catch up with It will show in your aura. No matter how well you groom yourself, you will always have that tired look. You would look pale and blank, and your skin would look dry.

 

  • Your friends would say you lost weight. Whenever they see you, they would tell you how horrible you look. It’s because you don’t have time to take care of yourself anymore. You feel the need to, but you often skip it because you think it’s a waste of time to spend it on prepping up.

 

What Are The Medical Health Conditions Caused By Financial Stress? 

  • Asthma
  • Cancer
  • Depression And Anxiety
  • Diabetes
  • Eating Disorders
  • Gastrointestinal Problems
  • Heart Disease/Attack
  • High Blood Pressure
  • Insomnia
  • Obesity
  • Psoriasis
  • Substance Abuse
  • Weight Gain/Loss
  • Rapid Aging
  • Early Death

 

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What Are The Ways To Deal With Financial Stress?

  • Pay one debt at a time.
  • Avoid spending on unnecessary things until you have paid all your debts.
  • Don’t borrow money just to pay a debt.
  • Drink chamomile tea to help you sleep better at night.
  • Exercise or walk your way to the office.
  • Instead of buying processed food, buy fruits from the stand on your way home.
  • Don’t use your credit card for unnecessary spending.
  • Avoid buying the stuff you don’t need.
  • When going to the grocery, always make a list of the things you need and stick to it.
  • Avoid the compulsive spending whenever you get your salary thinking it is okay to spend money because you worked hard for it.

 

It is a struggle to deal with the financial crisis. However, Elizabeth Scott, MS, a wellness coach said, “Learning to cope with financial stress and effectively manage your financial situation can help you feel more in control of your life, reduce your stress, and build a more secure future.” It makes us prisoner of something that we think is easy for everybody else, but we all somehow have experienced hardships. It’s a matter of the right attitude and mindset in dealing with the negativity caused by our financial problems. We must bear in mind that at the end of the day, the most important thing is that we are alive and healthy, and we always have an opportunity to do better.

What Stress Can Do To You

 

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Perhaps you already know that stress is the number one contributor to mental health problems. It does not only make things complicated for the physical attributes but it also significantly impacts both emotional and mental wellness. Stress supports overthinking and agitation. It also limits a person’s capability to act, think, and respond to situations typically. But on the specific effects, here are the things that stress can do to you.

It Can Make You Look Unattractive – Stress can make you look unattractive. That is due to its influence on a weak immune system. Since it supports the inability to think clearly, you become prone to sleepless nights. Stress impacts the brain by making you think about things that are unnecessary and unworthy. With that, your body reacts to the adverse effect and makes it unable to regenerate when needed. That is the reason why some stressed people often look old and unhealthy.

It Can Slow Your Productivity – Stress impacts your ability to concentrate. When you feel anxious about things, you begin to lose control of yourself. With that, the inability to cope up with your daily task becomes a problem. Stress becomes in control, and it slows you down. In some unfortunate cases, it makes you unable to continue doing things, even the ones you love to do. It hinders you in developing your skills and talents as well.

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It Can Make You Feel Tired All DayStress can make you feel weak even though you are not entirely doing anything. It creates a feeling where the only thing you can think about is exhaustion. You become too focused on a lot of things in your head that makes you lose interest in trying to do things one at a time. You become unreasonably tired of nothing in particular. You don’t feel like getting up in bed. And you want to isolate yourself. With that “Self-care is what we do for ourselves in order to better manage our stress and maintain a sense of balance. It is an on-going process and something we should be implementing daily rather than waiting for stress to completely overwhelm or overtake us.” Melanie McNally, PsyD, LCPC expresses.

It Can Impact Your Decision-Making Ability – Your decision-making ability is essential in your life. It is where your daily duties and responsibilities rely upon. When stress gets a hold of it, it becomes a dead-end for you. The unfortunate moment will disable you to create decisions that will matter in every aspect of your life. You will experience problems in decision-making for your job, relationship, and even personal development. As explained by Jennifer Bradley, Psy.D., HSPP, Clinical Psychologist, “When we are imbalanced, we develop various types of difficulties, including psychological and/or physical symptoms, and we begin to use ineffective or damaging coping mechanisms.”

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It Can Cause Anxiety And Depression – Stress, when chronic, leads to mental illness such as general anxiety and major depression. There is no vagueness that stress is the triggering factor that makes people lose their mental health. Its symptoms do not only focus on mood regulations but also indicates a negative cognitive function as well. With that, learning becomes difficult, and gaining emotional stability becomes way too challenging. Stress creates an overwhelming feeling. Marla W. Deibler, PsyD emphasizes that the “Overwhelm might manifest as an intense emotion, such as anxiety, anger or irritability; maladaptive thought process, such as worry, doubt or helplessness; and behavior, such as crying, lashing out or experiencing a panic attack.”

There are other damaging things that stress can do to you. So before it controls your life, you have to do something about it. Consider working on some helpful tips that can manage your stress. Focus on getting better by allowing positive energy to come in. If things become complicated, seek out for a piece of professional advice.

De-Stress: A Better You

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Have you felt your whole body is malfunctioning because of undergoing a specific circumstance? Stress is a mental tension that is a result of overthinking, extreme feeling of anxiety, or maybe from severe pressure due to one’s unfortunate event.

 

According to Gretchen Flores, MA LPC LCPC, “A limit is an invisible line that exists between emotional, physical, and psychological well being and becoming anxious, irritable and stressed.” Stress somehow acts as a traitor because it can affect your health even without your knowledge. You might be thinking that a simple but a frequent headache is because of an illness, or your mood swings might be because of menstrual periods. Well, ladies and gents– it may be simply due to stress.

 

Effects To Our Body

 

Stress has two sides; it may be positive or negative stress. If you have positive stress, then there could be no problem. However, if it is a negative stress? How does it affect you?

 

From rattling your mood to chronic body fatigue, stress can attack you mentally, physically or even in both ways. Worse, if left untreated, stress can lead to various health problems and diseases like hypertension, diabetes, obesity and the likes.

 

Oops! You do not like that, do you? What is the most efficient way to treat and prevent stress? Once in a while, you are to de-stress.

 

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De-Stress

 

De-stress is a way where you leave all your troubles and take a good rest. It can be in the form of taking a vacation, yoga or meditation, relaxing, exercising or you can simply start by thinking positively.

 

Here are some ways in which you can de-stress to relieve that day-to-day tension:

 

  • Vacation

After a series of works or maybe tons of school projects, it will not hurt to reward yourself a little. Book a flight, pack your suitcase, bid your worries goodbye and feel free to take some days off. “Taking time away from the stresses of work and daily life can improve our health, motivation, relationships, job performance, and perspective and give us the break we need to return to our lives and jobs refreshed and better equipped to handle whatever comes.” Shannon Torberg, PsyD, LP said.

 

Vacation helps you unwind and helps your body restart. Moreover, vacation will refresh your mind and help you to find more beauty in life. Having a vacation once in a while will help your heart. It would help you have a break from the busy world and let you put yourself first.

 

  • Yoga Or Meditation

If you are not a fan of traveling, you can try doing yoga or other types of meditation. Deep-breath exercises are known to help moderate our working heart. With the correct thoughts in attaining your inner peace, meditation would likely help you recover from a series of misfortunes. According Andrea F. Polard, PsyD, “Meditation is not just relaxing, but to be keenly aware of the present moment while not interfering with mental activities that revolve around our little self.”

 

  • Relaxing

To go out or to have yoga? There are other plenty of ways in which you can defeat stress. Try watching a comedy movie or maybe you can eat some chocolate. How about dipping yourself in a nice warm bath? Relax and feel alive again. Reward yourself with little things that make you happy.

 

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In this world full of technological advances, one form of relaxing maybe by letting yourself unplugging with the social networks. It would give you space from the crazy world of social media and prevent you from reading too much fake news. Disconnecting oneself from the web can lead you from having time to yourself and appreciate your life more.

 

  • Exercise

 

Working out is one way to eliminate stress. Why? When we work out, our body emits hormones called “endorphins” which is basically what makes us happy. They are hormones which are considered to be mood-boosting chemicals that light up our life and somewhat takes away our anxiety.

 

Exercise is more than just being physically fit, it is one way of protecting ourselves from possible stress-related disorders and helps strengthen our hearts as well as our bodies.

 

  • Think Positively

 

One common root of stress is overthinking. Positive thinking does not mean to neglect life issues or avoid one’s problem. It means looking at the good side of everything. Remember that all the things that happen around you happen for a reason.

 

Think about why it happened? Do not let yourself overthink the smallest problems in life. Thinking positively and gain the confidence to uplift yourself. Remember that you are as strong as anything you want to be. Positive thinking is free, but the positive effects you would get from it would last a lifetime.

 

 

Think about it. Life is more than what you think it is. De-stress to find yourself. De-stress, and you will be better.

 

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Fight Relationship Stress With These Useful Tips

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A romantic relationship is not loving, sweet, and cute all the time. The truth is, it is more on the opposite. Everything about it can become so stressful and depressing. In some unfortunate cases, it becomes the source of emotional and mental instability of a lot of people. With its complicated nature, most individuals fail to stick around and somehow stops working on it. So before you become of those people who chose to end up their relationship, you might want to try changing things. Consider these useful tips that fight relationship stress.

Correcting Bad Behavior To Reduce Stress – One of the basic principles of relationship is getting an overall improvement. It requires changing the negative behavior into something productive and worth considering. Both individuals in the relationship must acknowledge their bad qualities so they can make amendments to it. One must comply with the needs of the other and vice versa to improve both individuals emotional and mental growth. There must be a focus on changing what’s dangerous and unhealthy for the relationship. Jor-El Caraballo, LMHC once said, “Relationships in and of themselves do not create mental illness.” However, he adds, “When we suffer in our relationships, it can be difficult to move forward from past hurt and trauma.”

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Never Count Mistakes And Flaws – The concept of change requires focusing on the things that need to stay, and the things that should go. However, there is a problem with too much focus on negative stuff. One or two of the individuals in the relationship begin to count the mistakes. That is not how it is supposed to be. Both people in the romantic relationship should consider improving themselves and not making a big deal out of a mistake. But of course, that depends on the severity of the mistake. But regardless of that, forgiving and forgetting is the best way to manage relationship stress. Because when things are okay, both individuals in the relationship can move forward.

Never Allow Other People In Decision-MakingDonna M. White, LMHC, CACP once said, “Many times I have heard couples say, “We know what’s wrong, but we just don’t know how to fix it.”. This is a perfect time to get a third party involved. If a couple is stuck, a skilled clinician may be able to get them moving in the right direction.” One of the fundamentals of relationship is decision-making. When couples allow other individuals to decide for them, everything results in a mess. Things become so stressful that both partners will never make time to think about what they want in the relationship. By allowing others to decide for them, they are also weakening their ability to control their lives. It is much better to shut people off when things in the relationship are not going so well. It will allow both couples to have a peaceful conversation and think through solutions to their relationship problems.

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Always Talk Openly – Communication is the heart of every romantic relationship. Couples who find themselves talking to their significant others all the time tend to be happier than those who don’t spare time with their partners. That is because communication helps in building a strong bond. It allows both individuals to know each other’s thoughts and feelings. These people become aware of each other’s worth because they talk about it. They express themselves even if the situation tends to be stressful. “Participating together as a couple gives the partners the opportunity to pay closer attention to one another and listen more intimately to their needs, wants, and dissatisfactions, thus establishing a closer bond and a more intimate connection.” Dana Baduna, PhD, LMFT said.

Knowing the importance of relieving stress in the relationship is an edge in keeping a tight connection. Couples must consider taking a step in making these tips count.

Stressed About Everything So I Decided To Be Alone

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I know I can never avoid stress. Honestly, it is, in fact, part of my entire life, and I know that for sure. I also know it can affect my decisions and reactions to an everyday situation. It can bring bad vibes and an unpleasant amount of energy in a room. There is nothing entirely good about stress aside from the endurance and adrenaline it gives from time to time. However, due to specific instances where things fall apart, I have decided to leave everything as is. That instead of fight stress, I realized that isolation is a much better choice. Here are my reasons why.

Isolation To Avoid Toxicity – “Stress can seem omnipresent. Between working, socializing and taking care of the home, it sometimes seems we don’t have a minute to ourselves, let alone enough time to really take care of our bodies and minds.” says Sonja Seglin, LCPC. Not all people can appreciate things when they are alone. Some of them may think that it is a place where boredom and loneliness linger. But for me, it becomes a new door to create a much healthier comfort zone where toxicity gets excluded. I like it because when I am alone by myself, I can practice better thinking. I can surround myself with positive thoughts because there is nothing stressful to think about. I can aim for better emotional and mental stability that will become significantly important for my overall development.

 

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No Room For Drama – There are types of stress that usually comes from other people. It is where they throw negative energy to my outgoing personality. Some of them are often anxious and depress that when they try to engage with me, their issues become mine. I hate to say this, but avoiding other people’s drama gets misjudged. Some think that I do not care to listen to their problems. But the truth is, I only want to save my mental health from their emotional crisis. I do not want to feel affected by their problems, so instead of listening, I chose not to engage.

Let Go Of Things – “Everyone handles positive and negative stress differently. And yes, for some, positive stress can lead to a negative response to stress, depending on the situation.” Jessica Harris, LCPC, LPC said. If it is meant to be, then it will be. Stressful situations can come from excessive thoughts of wanting and getting everything. The point that it is challenging to achieve everything I want, I know I have to let it go. Honestly, there is no point in trying so hard when you know you will only end up not having anything. Yes, you can give me credit for trying. But insisting on what is impossible is never going to help me or anyone. With that, the art of letting go is further essential than pushing my limits. I will never be guilty about choosing things that are not giving me any hard time.

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It Is All About Freedom – Isolation doesn’t always mean sadness and loneliness. Sometimes, it can represent freedom from a different perspective. For me, isolation becomes the key to better living. Because with all the mental and emotional danger from the environment and social interaction, I can say I’m okay being alone. Not that I do not need anything or anyone, I want to never care too much about stuff that doesn’t entirely matter. “Happy people make healthier choices,” explains Scott Glassman, PsyD. With that, I know I’m doing the right thing.

I am not saying that my way of relieving stress is going to be helpful for you. If you wish to try it, do it on your own risk.

Long-Term Stress Management Tips

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Stress is something you can never easily avoid. There are instances that it causes a lot of life complications as well. It brings forward too much anxiety and depression, which can sometimes leave you in isolation. There are cases that stress incorporates a chronic illness that affects your overall function. It can even create massive damage in both emotional and mental health. For most people, it is one of the worst things that they can experience. Yes, there are instant methods that are useful in reducing stress. These include breathing, whistling, using a diversion, talking to someone, and so on. However, those types of methods only support an instant change and might not affect future recovery. Do not worry because there are much better ways to cope with the stress that secures a long-term effect.

Make Small Adjustments – The process may sound a bit too ordinary, but making small adjustments in your life-decisions can significantly reduce stress in an excellent degree. Minor life adjustments include doing things positively. One example is choosing to walk for at least 20-minutes a day. Andrea Bonior, PhD, clinical psychologist says, “Just a five-minute walk before you get in your car to go to work or hole up with your computer in your home office can not only give you an extra boost of motivation, but also give your thoughts some time to settle and get organized. So resist the urge to occupy yourself with your phone while you do it!” The practice will not take a lot of time, but its consistency will create an impact on your physical, emotional, and mental state. Another one is choosing the right food. It may be difficult at first. But the elimination of unhealthy food on the table can create a massive difference in your eating habits and overall energy consumption.

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Change Unnecessary Behavior – It is not always that you understand yourself. Honestly, there are a lot of instances that you don’t. Instead of complaining about it, try incorporating humor in your life. Learn to become more assertive and appreciative towards what is in front of you. Always consider lightening your day by focusing on what is genuine and not overthinking of what’s not there. Avoid getting upset all the time, and look at the bright side of everything. Practice your organization skills, enhance your time-management abilities, and improve your social skills. “Happy people do things differently. They make their emotional wellbeing a priority and practice daily and weekly habits that help them create joy, happiness and satisfaction in their lives.” Dr. Chantal Gagnon PhD LMHC said.

Control Your Thoughts – Your thoughts are always one step ahead of your actions. Therefore, before you engage in a situation where you know can trigger negative vibes, start controlling tour thoughts. Challenge the negativity in your head by not doing anything and not reacting to something instantly. You may take a pause and think about what is necessary to do. With this, you will be able to handle complicated situations because you allow self-control. Instead of overthinking, focus on what is more beneficial to the overall emotional and psychological development.

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Seek Outside Help – Stress is something that can control your life negatively. So before it creates massive damage, you have to take action. Seek outside help that ensures long-term benefits for your overall health and development. You can find the right support group in your community. Take time to talk to your friends and family about your situation. Ask for professional advice. Always think about surrounding yourself with positive people. “You know the ones—these are the people you know you can always call, text, or email when you need to feel a connection.” David Klow, a licensed therapist said.

Managing stress can be exhausting too. So you have to find the right methods that will help you not only for the meantime but for long-term as well.

How To Keep Yourself Away From A Stressful Situation

Being in a stressful situation can be detrimental to your mental health, which is why you must exert more efforts into clearing your mind and saving yourself from any negativity. Unfortunately, this can be a difficult thing to do, especially if you have no control with how things unfold around you. Do not worry because according to a therapist, at the end of the day, you are still the only one who gets to decide what you allow to affect you as well as those that you wish to ignore.

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In today’s article, we are going to share with you some of the essential tips to keep in mind so that you can save yourself away from a stressful situation. As already mentioned above, stress and anxiety can be bad for your mental wellness. The more you have it in your system, the more it can be destructive without you knowing it. Make sure to take note of the following:

Say Goodbye To Negative People

At this point in your life, you are probably aware of the different kinds of people in your life. You know who among them deserves to stay close to you while those who must be far away as much as possible. What you must do is to be firm in making a decision. You need to be smart to decide who can stay close to you and those that you need to cut ties to. Stop making reasons for not letting go of those who continuously destroy your peace or make it difficult on your part to survive your days. If you want to save yourself from stressful situations, then you have to start by leaving forced and unhappy relationships. Keep in mind that you are a great person who is worthy of all the best things life has to over. Fran Walfish, PsyD reminds everyone “When trying to keep a positive attitude, you must avoid people who thrive on negativity.”

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Be Physically Active

Another excellent way of keeping yourself away from stress is to exercise regularly. One of the advantages of being physically active is that you will get the right amount of energy to keep going for a given day. You will be surprised at how your energy levels can sustain all the tasks or activities for a given day. Amanda Zayde, PsyD once said, “Exercise is key; speak to your primary care physician to see what kind of physical activity is right for you.” Aside from this, exercising can also put you in a good mood at all times. It will be difficult for other people or situations to stress you out because of a high-level supply of dopamine in your system. The more you go to the gym or do your morning runs, the more carefree you become. If you can sustain this kind of lifestyle, then nothing can ever bring you down.

Try Seeking Help From A Therapist

You must also entertain the idea of seeking professional help from a mental health expert, especially at times when you notice that your stress and anxiety are too much to handle. Take note that these negative emotions can make you a difficult person to deal with. Aside from this, it can also make you lose focus to the point that you will become unproductive. Fortunately, there is a proven way to solve all these problems, and that is to call the help of a therapist. “Therapists can provide a fresh perspective on a difficult problem or point you in the direction of a solution. The benefits you obtain from therapy depend on how well you use.” Chris Corbett, PsyD said. You can find the best therapist to handle your case and book for appointments during your free time. It is ideal to do is constantly so that you can reap the benefits of professional engagement.

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Take A Break At All Times

Being in a stressful situation can be one of the worst things that can happen in your life, which is why you have to do whatever it takes to improve yourself. Learn how to give yourself a chance to breathe and to relax. It is essential, particularly at times when you are suffering from too much stress at work or in managing your business. Do not feel guilty for wanting to take a break for one day or even the whole weekend. In so doing, you can allow your body to recharge and restore your lost energy. After a relaxing day at the beach or a calming weekend at a new city, you will feel like a brand new person. Together with it will come satisfaction and genuine happiness.

Conclusion

Remember that you have the power to change the course of your life. Stressful situations will always be there, but you get to decide whether to expose yourself to it or go as far away as possible from it. The choice depends on how well you can follow the tips or guidelines mentioned above.

Distressing Tips You Don’t Often Follow (Psychology Discussion)

Perhaps you already know that stress is the number one leading cause of mental health issues. Any field of psychology would agree to that. It makes you weak and vulnerable to certain conditions that are sometimes out of control. In some unfortunate cases, its effects affect your way of living and how you treat others. But there is no doubt you know some of the ways to prevent it from ruining your life. There goes the time you tend to change your eating habits to choosing healthy and nutritious ones. Maybe you also tried exercising due to its overall benefits. Or perhaps you already managed to shift your way of thinking from negative to decisive. But how convinced are you that you are getting the best from those helpful strategies? Well, there are distressing tips that for sure you know useful, but pretty much don’t follow.

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Bitching About Things That Don’t Matter (Can’t Learn To Let Go)

According to Marla W. Deibler, PsyD, “When we think a stressor is too great for us to manage, we feel overwhelmed,” Indeed, you want the excitement on things around you. That is why you somehow want to feel involved to whatever it is that goes beyond your interests. However, when you have the habit of always pushing on things that don’t necessarily require your presence and don’t even concern you, then you are just making it hard for yourself. Okay, maybe you feel like there are instances that perhaps connect you with stuff like different family problems, friends’ financial matters, relationship issues with someone close to you, and so on. But it does not mean you need to give a damn about all of it. If it is not harming you or at least not asking for your presence, then let it go.

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Don’t Act Like You Know Everything (It’s Okay To Ask Questions)

“We find ourselves yearning for greater depth and meaning in our lives, and a sense of authentic connection, but don’t quite know how to find our way.” Jennifer Bradley, Psy.D., HSPP, Clinical Psychologist expresses. One factor that makes stress grow significantly is the habit of knowing-it-all. Understandably, some things maybe make you more mentally and emotionally intelligent, among others. But of course, there are things you don’t know. There are things that you have not experienced yet in your whole existence. With that, it leaves you clueless same as everybody else. When you concentrate on thinking that you have all the answers to everything, you don’t only lie to others, but also yourself as well. So what if you know nothing about certain things? Will it become a big deal if you tell people you don’t know something? It is okay to ask clarifications when things are a bit blurry and confusing. There is nothing wrong in people that you don’t know anything, so stop stressing yourself over answering questions.

Talk Less And Listen More Often (Be Mindful With Others)

One particular problem that people often encounter is the stress of having a conflict with others. That is because one can be unintentionally selfish. That instead of thinking about other individuals feelings, they begin to lay down theirs. The situation creates a different kind of emotional and mental stress because people appear to be more self-centered. They often disregard listening and showing sympathy towards others because they want the attention all to their selves. So if you find yourself in this particular state, be mindful to consider other people’s feelings and situation. You need to understand that not everything is about you. So instead of talking more, listen and pay close attention to what others are going through.

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Raise Awareness On What You Feel (Rather Than Focus On What People Think)

Stress is the result of the unwanted things that continuously hunts your mental state. It leads to different kinds of disorders too. So before you allow it to damage your life, raise the awareness of knowing how you feel and think about yourself. Rather than focus on listening to what people negatively say about you, prove them wrong. Work your way towards the betterment of your emotional, mental, physical, spiritual, and social life. Redefine how you picture yourself in terms of handling complicated situations. Never let people decide for you. Never allow them to ruin your motivation into becoming the person you wished to be. Focus on your skills and capabilities, understand your emotions, keep your mental state safe, and all things will follow. As Melanie McNally, PsyD, LCPC states, “Self-care is what we do for ourselves in order to better manage our stress and maintain a sense of balance. It is an on-going process and something we should be implementing daily rather than waiting for stress to completely overwhelm or overtake us.”

These are the basic things that make you safe from stress. It is understandable that there are times you do not feel like doing some or all of these things. There is also no problem if sometimes you once try it but cannot seem to maintain it. But in case you realize you want to achieve better things in life, start following these distressing tips.